可愛(ài)的小鴨小學(xué)作文
The Positive Meanings of Love 愛(ài)的真諦
1.We’d like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.
翻譯：我們想與大家一起分享我們對愛(ài)的一些積極看法。
2.Love means that I know the person I love. I，m aware of the many sides of the other person~not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other’s feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)了解所愛(ài)之人。能夠認識到這個(gè)人的各個(gè)方面——不僅僅 是美好的一面，還有他的局限、他的矛盾之處、他的缺點(diǎn)。要看到這個(gè)人的 情感、思想、感受他的內心。要能夠透過(guò)他在社交場(chǎng)合的表現和他的社會(huì )角 色而看到他的內心深處。
3.Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care about you, I’m concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become. Consequently, I don’t put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person，even though it may result in my discomfort at times.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)關(guān)心所愛(ài)之人的幸福。真正的愛(ài)不是占有，也不是束縛。 相反，兩人都在愛(ài)中得到自由。關(guān)心一個(gè)人就是關(guān)心他的成長(cháng)，希望他可以 盡其所能有所成就。因此，我不會(huì )為他的個(gè)人發(fā)展設置障礙，即使有時(shí)這樣 會(huì )給我帶來(lái)不便。
4.Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for me. I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you axe, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)尊重所愛(ài)之人。愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就是將其視作一個(gè)獨立的人， 有他自己的價(jià)值觀(guān)、思想和感情。我不會(huì )為了自己而堅持要他放棄個(gè)性來(lái)變 成我所希望的他。我能允許，也鼓勵他與眾不同，成為他自己。我不會(huì )視他 如物，或利用它來(lái)滿(mǎn)足自己的需要。
5.Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you. Instead, It means acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering. A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)對所愛(ài)之人負責。愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就要對他作為獨立的個(gè)體的 需求做出回應。這種負責并非替他做他可以自己做的事情，也不是操縱他的 生活。這種負責是承認我的所作所為會(huì )影響到他，他的歡樂(lè )痛苦都與我休戚 相關(guān)。相愛(ài)著(zhù)的人有時(shí)卻會(huì )傷害或忽略對方，所以，我們知道，愛(ài)就是要為 自己的行為對對方產(chǎn)生的影響承擔某種責任。
6.Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)對所愛(ài)之人做出承諾。這種承諾并非意味著(zhù)完全把自己交 給對方，也并不是說(shuō)這一關(guān)系一定要永遠不變。這種承諾意味著(zhù)不論在恬適 歡樂(lè )時(shí)，還是在艱難困苦、失意絕望時(shí)，都愿意廝守相伴。
7.Love means trusting the person I love. If I love you，I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won’t deliberately hurt me. I trust that you will find me attractive, and that you won’t abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our love. If we trust each other, we are willing to be open to each other and reveal our true selves.
翻譯：愛(ài)就意味著(zhù)信賴(lài)所愛(ài)之人。愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就要相信他會(huì )接受我的關(guān)心， 接受我的愛(ài)，相信他不會(huì )故意傷害我;相信自己對他有吸引力，相信他不會(huì ) 拋棄我;相信愛(ài)是相互的。如果我們彼此信賴(lài)，我們就愿彼此開(kāi)誠布公，敞 開(kāi)心扉。
8.Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times when I am bored, times when I may feel like giving up，times of real strain, and times I feel I can’t move forward. Authentic love does not inply enduring happiness. I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past，and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through. We agree with the idea that love is a spirit that changes life. Love is a way of life that is creative and that transforms. However, love is not reserved for a perfect world. Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong. Love is meant to be a spirit that works in painful situations. Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to rule. In other words, love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to live.
翻譯：愛(ài)能夠容忍不完美。愛(ài)人之間有時(shí)也會(huì )感到厭煩，有時(shí)會(huì )想放#，有 時(shí)感到壓力，有時(shí)感到羈絆。真正的愛(ài)并不意味著(zhù)永遠幸福。但是，在困難 時(shí)期我能堅守，因為我仍記得我們共同度過(guò)的往昔，我也能想象如果我們愿 意直面問(wèn)題、渡過(guò)難關(guān)，我們將共同擁有什么樣的未來(lái)。我們一致認為愛(ài)是 一種精神，它能改變人生。愛(ài)是一種生活方式，它具有創(chuàng )造和改變的力量。 但是愛(ài)并不只是完美世界所獨有，愛(ài)本來(lái)就是為我們這個(gè)不完美、有缺陷的 世界而存在的。愛(ài)應該是一種能緩解痛苦的精神力量。愛(ài)應該給我們這充滿(mǎn) 荒謬的生活帶來(lái)意義。換言之，是愛(ài)使我們在這個(gè)不完美的世界上生活下去。
9.Love is open. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships. Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts，we are not totally and exclusively married to each other. It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow.
翻譯：愛(ài)是大方的。愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就要鼓勵其與他人建立聯(lián)系。盡管對彼此的 愛(ài)與承諾不允許我們有某些行為，這種結合也不是全然排他的。兩個(gè)人必不 可分，再無(wú)其他發(fā)展的余地，這樣的愛(ài)是不真實(shí)、不明智的。
10.Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value，appreciate， and respect myself. If I am enpty, then all I can give you is my emptiness. If I feel that I，m complete and worthwhile in myself, then I，m able to give to you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you love is by folly enjoying myself with you.
翻譯：愛(ài)又是自私的。只有真正自愛(ài)自重、自賞自尊，才能愛(ài)別人。如果自 己空虛，那么我能給所愛(ài)之人的也只有空虛。如果認為自己是完滿(mǎn)的、出色 的，那么我就能以自己的充實(shí)為所愛(ài)之人增光。表達愛(ài)的最好方法之一就是 與所愛(ài)之人一起充分體驗自己。
11.Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.
翻譯：愛(ài)就要看到所愛(ài)之人的內在潛力。m愛(ài)他/她今日之所作所 為，也要視其所能為。視人靜止不變，則令其退步，而視其進(jìn)步發(fā)展、待他 如同他的潛力已經(jīng)發(fā)揮，則助其進(jìn)步。
12.To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one’s individuality. In love，two beings become one and yet remain two.
翻譯：歸根結底，成熟的愛(ài)就是保持個(gè)性條件下的雙方結合。兩個(gè)人由于愛(ài) 合二為一，又仍是兩個(gè)獨立的個(gè)體。
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